Growing up, Christmas was never a big deal for me. It wasn’t a magical wonderland, just a routine part of life. Granted, I had two immigrant parents who came from Peru and Peruvians don’t do it big like in America. Fast forward to becoming a parent, and suddenly, the magic of Christmas took me by surprise. Christmas Without Sparkle As a kid, Christmas felt ordinary. It was about decorations, gifts,…
Growing up in a household where essential conversations were shrouded in silence. I found myself stumbling through the labyrinth of self-discovery, particularly when it came to understanding my body and grappling with the gravity of certain topics. Now, as a parent to a 7 and 11-year-old, I’m faced with the task of demystifying the inevitable: puberty, relationships, and all the questions that naturally arise. So, here’s the unfiltered truth: your…
Anxiety attacks and mom life. Being a mom is a tumultuous journey, and sometimes, the emotional waves hit hard. Anxiety attacks have become an unexpected companion, making a third appearance this year. Very scary. And yes, it’s an anxiety attack, not a panic attack. Picture this as a storytelling session around the kitchen table, where unsettling gym stares, homework drama, and heated disagreements with the spouse become the talk of…
Turning Chores into Hilarious Hijinks! Ever feel like getting your kids to do chores is like pulling teeth? Well, join the club! In this blog post, I spill the beans on how my 11-year-old daughter and 7-year-old son tackle their chores with all the enthusiasm of a Monday morning wake-up call. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride through our chore adventures, where reluctance turns into surprise, giggles, and a whole…
We need to talk about the untamed beast that goes by the name of dysregulation. The Wild World of Dysregulation in Women. You know, that rollercoaster of emotions that’s like trying to navigate a grocery store with a wonky cart – it’s unpredictable, occasionally infuriating, and a part of our everyday lives. So, grab your sense of humor and let’s dive into the whirlwind of being a mommy, spouse/wife, and…
Mis Amigos! So, it’s practically Thanksgiving, and I’m still here reminiscing about our last three Halloweens because, let’s be real, I’m all about that ‘better late than never’ life. So, grab your leftover candy and let’s dive into the not-so-timely, but definitely stylish, evolution of our family Halloween costumes over the years! 2019: Beetlejuice extravaganza costumes A hauntingly hilarious chapter in our family’s costume saga. Decked out in black-and-white stripes…
Social media, what can I say about it? Parenting in the age of smartphones is like trying to find your way through a maze without a map – challenging and a bit confusing. I might not be a tech expert, but I’ve realized that when it comes to my kids and their phones, a little dose of control is a good thing. It’s not about being the tech police; it’s…
As I was finishing up the blog post yesterday regarding Middle School Drama, I realized I should have maybe given some strategies on how to build openness and trust with your children. I have a few friends whose kids don’t speak to them about anything. They just don’t know how to. I think what helped me knowing how to speak to my kids was that I didn’t have that growing…
Middle school drama, a labyrinth of adolescent emotions, friendships, and occasional heartaches. Recently, my daughter, Ziana Eliz, confronted a challenging situation with two newfound friends, a reminder that navigating the complexities of middle school social dynamics requires a delicate touch as a parent. One of her new besties has been jokingly pushing her around, and then saying things like “She’s my friend, not yours!” Why is that funny or cute,…
Welcome to the chaotic yet rewarding world of motherhood! Balancing the demands of family, work, and personal life can be overwhelming, but fret not – this guide is your front row ticket, I would say more like a VIP ticket, to mastering the art of effective time management. Let’s dive into some strategies that have helped me along my way! This is for us busy moms, ensuring you reclaim control…
No one likes talking about shit, literally, but having dealt with this thing called constipation I wanted to share what I’ve learned. A few weeks ago I spoke about what me and Ziana Eliz were going through on Instagram, I was surprised at how many of you guys dealt with the same issues. What is Constipation? First thing to know is that it’s considered constipation if you go to the…
